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Embracing My Inner Elaine

So I have a reputation.

In my family it is well known that if you invite me to your wedding, and you play music at said wedding, I will dance like my chicken Marsala was sprinkled with “funny” mushrooms instead of shiitakes. I like to sing all the songs (the more 80s and cheesy the better). I use random objects as microphones and when no random objects can be found, I use my fist. I act out the words (seriously, if you have snooty family to impress, don’t play Pour Some Sugar On Me at your reception). I tend to get a lot of comments like, “Wow. You’ve got a lot of…energy.” Which is exactly the sort of thing people say about four-year-olds when they can’t think of anything nice.

Case in point: The champagne glass microphone. (This is my own wedding, by tht way, just so you don’t think I wear white dresses and veils to other people’s weddings)

I know this about myself and I like to think of it as an endearing quality. Like something my family members give knowing looks about and then say, “Well, that’s Erin!”

At weddings where I’m not around people I’ve known since birth and no one else is dancing, I’m actually much more reserved (though it takes a whole lot of will power and I can’t help but bop my knees under the table). But really, what’s a wedding without dancing? Receptions are practically the reason the song Footloose was written.

This weekend I was at my cousin’s wedding and was out there doing my thing when my husband informed me, “You’re actually a really good dancer, except you make this face.”

I said, “What? What face?”

And then he went on to demonstrate that while dancing, I’m the facial equivalent of Elaine from Seinfeld.

At first I was mortified. Dancing is one thing. But stupid facial expressions? Was everyone laughing at me? And I tried so hard to dance without making the faces after that, but it was impossible. Like trying to sneeze with your eyes open. My facial muscles seem to be connected to my leg muscles, which are all hardwired to move to the beat.

I imagine the face is not unlike this. With or without a baby in my arms. No surprise, this picture was taken at a wedding.

So. Whatever. I embraced it. I danced and I made stupid faces and it was OK. Because why should something I can’t control dictate my enjoyment? Plus, I figured it’s been this way for years and it all fits into that whole “endearing quality” theory I talked about before.

I said to my husband, “And lucky you! You’re already married to me.”

And then I danced some more. And did the Thriller with my grandma. Because my grandma is awesome. And she makes silly faces too. And she’s in her 80s and isn’t afraid to try doing the Thriller. When I grow up I want to be just like her.

I’m sure there’s a moral in there somewhere–Dance like no one’s watching. Or embrace who you really are. Do with it what you will. I just figure that somewhere along the way, someone isn’t going to like what I do/say/think no matter what it is. So I might as well make sure that what I’m doing/saying/thinking is all me. After all, Elaine is a pop culture legend.

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4 thoughts on “Embracing My Inner Elaine

  1. Oh, I love this, Erin! The embarrassing thing that happens to me is people saying, “Hey, I saw you singing and dancing in your car!” LOL. Yep, that was me, beating my hands on the steering wheel, singing at the top of my lungs, and gyrating to the beat of anything from Def Leppard to the Bee Gees as I drove down the street. Not much I can do to deny it. Besides, I amuse myself. 😉

  2. Wish you had been at my wedding! We could have danced like no one was watching together! (It’s the #1 reason the bridesmaids got slippers from me, they would have no excuse to not be on the dance floor!)

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